from the editor
ex • tol
/ik’stol/
To praise enthusiastically.
synonyms: enthuse about,
acclaim, celebrate.
I GREW UP in a family where there were three things you
rarely – if ever – talked about: religion, money and politics.
My father was a Methodist minister for several years, but
when he divorced my mother, who was awarded full custody
of all five of us kids, we quickly joined the Baptist church that
was literally located next door to where we had previously
worshipped in our rural Michigan town.
I don’t recall much of anything – I was six – except a bit of
guilt for preferring the cushioned seats at our new church
over the pews we used to sit in. (I figured God was so big and
great, surely He’d know I was praising him in a new location
and wouldn’t hold the comfy seating preference against me.)
But my family never talked about what the change in churches
meant or how any of us felt about it.
Nor did we talk about how little money we had, especially
once my father left us, though, of course, it was obvious.
Thankfully, our mother worked hard – and not just at her
job as a full-time nurse – to teach her kids the value of being
grateful for what we did have, and we knew enough not to ask
why our father seemed to have more as we struggled with less.
I also still have no idea how any of my parents – grandparents,
stepparents and Godparents included – have voted or vote in
elections and would never think of asking. That was considered
rude and, frankly, very personal. It was a conversation you
simply didn’t have.
Oh, how times have changed.
I now understand religion – and faith – in a way that allows
me to accept and appreciate others beliefs, even when they
differ from mine. And I want to talk about it and hear others
talk about it, too.
I’m still uncomfortable talking about money, but I don’t
(fully) avoid discussions anymore. I do, however, find myself
bewildered by the power – both positive and destructive –
money can have in myriad aspects of life. I know people with
wealth who are the poorest people I’ve ever met, people with
nothing who have the richest lives and lots of people who fall
somewhere in between. Thanks to my upbringing, I am still far
more grateful far for what I do have than I long for what I don’t.
But politics? Ugh.
I loathe talking about it, feel anxiety when others do, tiptoe
around sharing how I really feel and usually refrain. Because
when you do talk about politics these days, it almost always
seems to evoke confrontation – or worse – instead of discussion,
unless you only seek opinions from those whose opinions
are aligned with yours (which research shows most of us do).
But just because we’re uncomfortable about a subject
doesn’t mean we should avoid it. That’s a life lesson I continue
to learn again and again.
In this issue of Extol, you’ll find a diverse collection of
stories about people and places connected to Southern
Indiana: WAVE 3 mainstay and community advocate Dawne
Gee shares her inspirational story about finding hope after
having a stroke. Our explorer JD Dotson travels to Tell City.
Writer Miranda McDonald explains what is “fast fashion” and
why you should care. Ray Lucas may evoke a tear or two the
next time you see a robin in the yard in his A Life in Progress
column. Longtime education reporter Toni Konz, of WDRB,
offers 10 ways to mesh education with fun this summer. And
Hoosier Mama columnist Farrah Alexander shares how she
has opted to explain how she feels about President Donald
Trump to her child.
I hope you’ll take the time to read the stories and columns
we feature in Extol – and then, I invite you to respond by
sending an email to angie@extolmag.com.
If you like what you see, let me know. If you don’t, let me
know. Because goodness knows, we all could benefit from a bit
more discussion and discourse with one another about what
connects us AND what makes us uncomfortable.
As always, thank you for taking the time to pick up Extol. I
hope to hear from you.
Yours truly,
Angie Fenton
Editor in Chief
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